If You love Me, Don't Love Me: Undoing reciprocal Double Binds and Other Methods of Change in Couple and Family Therapy

This work presents clinical examples to reveal a fresh understanding of the therapist's feelings within the context of the treatment. It shows how to work with crippling reciprocal double-binds, when, for example, someone wants to be loved but pushes loved ones away out of fear that loss will follow. 256 pages.