The Psychoanalytic Encounter and the Misuse of Theory

Reviews and Endorsements

‘Lee Grossman's superb book speaks as powerfully to the newly-minted as to the seasoned clinician. He starts from the premise that we all encounter, as a matter of course, confusion, risk, and emotional storms in relation to our patients. Chapter by chapter, his humanity, clarity, and wit shine light on our most difficult therapeutic struggles and clear away mystifications that cloud our thinking. The Psychoanalytic Encounter and the Misuse of Theory is the most practical and helpful guide to doing clinical work that I've read in a very long time; it's also damn funny.’ - Daphne de Marneffe, author of

‘In this unique book, Lee Grossman incisively captures the immediacy of clinical engagement with a freshness that is solidly based on but transcends accepted theories, exposing the misuse of theory while extending and reviving theory with his open-minded curiosity. From start to end he questions, consistently returning to the uncertainties of actual experience. Indeed, he does so in a style both enlightening and lightening, with a rare wit that at times is even laugh aloud. Yes, this seriously thoughtful work is absolutely valuable reading. It is also fun to read.’ - Warren S. Poland, author of Intimacy and Separateness in Psychoanalysis

‘In a book that so thoughtfully and incisively tackles the fundamental concerns of clinical psychoanalysis––the "syntax of neurotic thought," the "perverse attitude towards reality," sado-masochism and the object relation, psychotic functioning and "self-cure," the complexities and ironies of the analyst's activity––what never falters, not for one sentence, is Lee Grossman's writerly voice. Nimble, witty, wry, and welcoming, Grossman performs the analytic values that underwrite his brilliant book until they become one with it. What a gift this gifted analyst and writer has given us!’ - Mitchell Wilson, editor, The Journal of the American Psychoanalytic Association